I went to my friend’s wedding last week. I have known each other since we were six years old. I couldn’t believe that he get married so early. I mean, we are still twenty years old. It is impossible to marry to someone for me now. There are some reasons why I think so.
First, I think I am still just a girl. I mean, I haven’t had experiences about everything deeply yet, so I need to try something I have never done before. Then I want teach and told my children when I have them. Second, a child can’t bring up a child, and if you were childish, it is difficult to keep good relationship between husband and wife. Both of them have to be considerate of each other, and I think he or she need to excuse some problems which their partner have done. Situation of people who are just going out with, they can part or do whatever they want. However, situation of people who married, I think it is not easy to part. Finally. I guess there are a lot of opportunities to change own life. For example, whenever I can study abroad if I want. Then, anything could happen there. Anyway, it is early to marry for me.
I would like to marry to someone in the future. I went to the wedding, and I was impressed to see that. It was really awesome like story of Cinderella. Then, the bride wore beautiful wedding dress, so it made her more beautiful. They looked the happiest people I’ve ever met. I feel so nice to see them, and I envy them a little. I realized that to have a partner who has lived with together is really great and happiness. In addition, I respect them that they decided to live with together, and they recognized they are the best for each other. I hope their happiness.
You are so wise. So many people do go into marriage thinking only of the wedding and the good times. Marriage is not like dating, of course, and it does, as you say, take mature people to live together within a commitment that says, "I will be one with you. We will make it work together even when it doesn't feel so good." Even the happiest couples I know have some disagreements, but they have to know how to not hurt each other and that means sacrifice, and children definitely don't know how to sacrifice, do they? It's as you say.
ReplyDeleteHowever, I wish that people were mature enough and committed enough to marriage that they could marry so early. It would keep people out of so much trouble, and it would help us each to grow less selfish -- that is, if we behaved in marriage the way that we should.
Then, yes, children cannot raise children. You are just so wise! I guess I am just saying what you have already said. I am very glad that my parents provided a home where the parents were adults and the children could be children!