I would like to talk about a partner. I have heard that people can’t marry to a person who is the best for them. Minds aren’t same as each people though, some people include my friends say if they marry to the best partner for them, they have kept watch over him above their want, and they have bothered the partner. Chiefly, they are tired because they have restrained them much. Therefore, they want to marry to the second person who they don’t need to chase for them.
I think it’s weird. I know about their thinking, but they just seem to escape from trouble. It’s natural to keep watch over and restrain a partner for all people because you really love your partner. However, you must not intrude every your opinion on your partner because your partner also have their opinion and condition as you have. The most important thing is that to love is to give, not to ask. Also, it’s important to take love accurately which your partner gives you in his own thinking. I think if people could understand these things and considerate of each people, I feel like many of them changed minds and thought they want to marry to the best person for them. I believe that.
Anyway, the best partner of my ideal is a person who tries hard everything and who I respect. I think to respect is necessary between husband and wife. In addition, the condition which I can’t miss is a person whose feeling is same as me. However, I will not find such a person easily. Then, it’s more difficult to live with the person. Therefore, to marry to the best person is kind of fate. Actually, if a guy who like I say appear in front of me, I don’t know whether I come to love him. People are greedy, so it might be that “the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.” To marry is really difficult.
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